All of us are undeniably a vital part of our society, whether we wish to betray the "Socially Amicable" tag for nurturing our private lives or claim as "Socially Active".
Hailing from Indian roots majority of us are pampered in a well knit family environment with a lot of melodrama from our family members irrespective of the age groups.
From going to school, to going to an MNC for work, you are constantly surrounded by 1000s of eyeballs from everywhere. While some people enjoy and encourage this sort of attention with their constant updates and activities, some get acutely irritated and feel they are in a maze. Why does one go through such a phase at one or the other stage of life? As human beings, we are always susceptible to emotional up and down hills. When your fellow society mates encounter you and wringer with questions related to your personal life, work etc, you tend to audaciously revert to them when your life is in the "unwell" mode or on the contrary you get emotionally elevated and answer them with all the pleasure in the world.
Why and where do such questions advent from??? It's the result of constant tapping of other's life shell because of one's frustration or insecurity. Some people seem to ironically exaggerate the act of keeping themselves updated. They feel this is the only way of doing it for keeping their dissatisfied souls entertained.
People's interest in other's progress graph in life has never declined. This has contributed to so much of negativity among relationships,that it has brought in a stupid sense of competition among your own family members and friends. What do they gain from this? Nothing but some crappy gossip sources.
Instead, if one inculcates the "out of the box" approach to deal with this issue too, then they can make this a super tonic to boost their morale and confidence. They can nourish their relationships with family and friends and keep the air filled with a happy and healthy flavor of life.
The key ingredients required for a pleasant outlook are a calm mindset,a bowl full of patience and a pinch of delightful attitude of accepting these questions whenever you encounter them. Show them that you are not afraid of answering them and always carry an optimistic tinge in your personality. Never forget the age old saying "What goes around comes around".
-Kavya Raghuram
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